King has been... Dethroned!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Rai pauses... steps up to the ex-boyfriend formally known as King and snatches his crown, "Gimme dat nicca!"

Ah well... after about two weeks of neglect I am back! I am back and I am single! Single! Single!

In all honesty I have always been single. Even when I wasn't I always was. I am so glad I have kept this blog. It is living proof that I was blinded and should have left that situation a long time ago. Often times love blinds us. It distracts us from the negative and focuses our attention on the positive.

I feel so FREE ladies and gentlemen. I can post about any topic I want to. He always made me feel like I couldn't be as open as I would have wanted to be on this blog (due to the fact that telling my business is also telling his). I am so excited because... due to the fact that I am indeed single... who do I have to answer to? ABSOLUTELY NO ONE!

We have been having issues in our relationship for the last month. Actually he has been having the issue. I gave and gave and gave. You all know how much I gave... my bday was wack with him... no Christmas presents because he is not a believer... valentines... NOTHING... never really had time for me... it was always work... work... work. Now don't get me wrong... there were a lot of good things about the relationship. I love the fact that he was driven and determined. It inspired me! I am moving forward in my life because of it.

The Down Fall:

I will now refer to the former King as "X". It all started on our one year anniversary... (this past weekend). He decided that he just wanted to be my friend because I didn't measure up to his ex-girlfriend. I will be honest... it hurt my feelings initially. I have never in life been compared to anyone else... let alone settled on! It was new to me... but I definitely see the message of it all. God was teaching me humility and vulnerability. I am multifaceted and come from a different world than him. It was never meant to work... no matter how much I wanted to convince myself that it was. I think my problem was that... I was so ready to settle down I made myself oblivious to the obvious. He wasn't as in to me as I was him.

X has commitment issues that only he can fix. I wish him the best in all of his endeavours (as I know he will read this to figure out how I am really taking the breakup).

X,

You will always be near and dear to me. I just care not to see are talk to you ever again in life (after I give you your things). It was a fun ride, I learned so much from you. I wish you nothing the but the best with www.lioneyetv.com (his web based TV station... ya'll should check it out! Really HOTT Shows!). Have a nice life with your "Perfect Clan" of a Family (Granny, Mom, Brother and Uncle) . I hope you eventually get your boys! Enjoy your best female friend who get you... and continue to enjoy conversations from ex-girlfriends who want you back... I don't. You were a wonderful friend and man. You have a lot to offer someone, when you decide to.

I will always have love for you,

Rai.

Whew... I can move on... or have I already? You all will have to stay tuned. Don't worry X isn't completely replaced yet, but you all know that there is always someone out there that will treat you how you deserve to be treated in EVERY WAY and you should never settle just for the sake of having a man!

The End.

~Thecrownhasofficiallybeenburnt!~