Wednesday, May 17, 2006

Girlfriends! REAL Girlfriends ;o)


As I sit here breaking from my day to day grind, I realize the importance of friendship. Female friendships. Growing up, I always had to deal with jealousy, envy, and deceit from females. I found solace in male friendships. Don't get me wrong, I still have really close male friends but, there is something different about woman-woman bonding. There are four really special friends in my life and this post is dedicated to them.

Me and Princessa "J" (The Bohemian Bombshell)- It is funny because we have known each other since high school but, in the last couple of years we have been closer than conjoined twins! We are so different, but that is what makes our friendship so awesome. We can talk to each other about anything. PJ is an extremely intelligent, strongwilled female that knows what she wants out of life. She is very driven and knows directions! She has a wild side (which a few people in TX and the whole ATL know about)! ;o) I know that I can depend on her no matter what- she will always be in my corner. She is going to be on the red carpet one day and I know she is gonna take me with her (she better). She is a shining star and I am honored to call her friend.

Me and Busy Body "M" (The Workaholic) - I LOVE "M" 'cause she is an AMAZING, wonderfully understanding person whom I adore. We met through Princessa, and that was it. I have never me a sweeter soul. "M" is caring and will achieve so much here in the near future. She always has a ear for whomever needs to talk. She spend a great deal of time listening to and aiding Princessa and I on figuring out our issues. She says little about herself. But, little does she know, I feel her deepness. She spends 110% of her time working. I know she will be successful, but she never, ever, EVER takes time for herself. This will definitely HAVE to change. She is sweet as apple pie and I am blessed that she calls me friend.

Me and Quiet'n'Spi"C" (The Wonderer) - OMG! What can I say? How can I say? Spi"C" and I met in college (during the crazy years). One of my earliest memories of her was her running down the hallway of the dorm in her bra! We partied together... those early years were a blurrr... That explains why I left school after that semester. When ever I wanted to 'hang' out or get into mischief I would call "C". Years passed after I left school and we didn't talk much. I got pregnant with my son and I slowed my roll completely. She called me out of the blue one day to check on me. During that convo, she shared with me that she was 3 months pregnant. It was such a coincidence because I was 7 months. We both have boys with biblical names. The second phase of our friendship started that night. We are now responsible single moms, we work together, and 'play' together. She is really quiet but, don't let that fool you. She can twirk it with the best of them. I love what she stands for and were she is going in life. WE can party, cry, and laugh together. I am proud to call her my SUPER FRIEND!

Me and Dontgetittwisted "K" (The Christian Diva) - Humph... Words cannot express how I feel about this friend. I love her soooooo much. I also met "K" through Princessa. We became instant friends. She is the one person I know who lack less sense than me. She is also the only person I know that will curse you out and pray for you all in one sentence. This is what I adore so much about her. She is true to herself. "K" cares less what the world thinks of her. She is loud, boisterous, and full of energy! She is ramped up 200% of the time. She is truly a rare find and... that's why I am excited about calling her friend.

I have special females that I did not mention in this post but, they are all dear to me in such vast ways. The woman-woman true bond is a rare find. When you are able to develop this relationships, you should cherish them and not take them for granted.

I LOVE YOU SISTER FRIENDS

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