Men and Women and Sex Outside of Committment
Hey Ladies!
I was pondering life awhile ago, and it hit me! I figured it out.
Ok... I know what you all are thinking, "Figured what out?".
How men and women view sex outside of committed relationships .
Men:
Men want It (sex) and once they get It, they don't want it anymore (the replacement journey begins).
Basically, curiosity is the best way to really know if a man is truly interested in you. Once you give up the "goodies", regardless of what he may say, your worth lessens. He may want to "hit it" occasionally, but soon you will become replaced by the next unsuspecting woman. Make him wait ladies. Embarking on a sexual relationship too soon opens the door to confusion. I will explain more later.
Women:
Women want It (sex) and once they get It, they want more (a relationship, plus more sex!).
Regardless of what we may say, once we give ourselves to a man intimately we begin to develop feelings for him (if they were not apparent prior to sleeping with him). We long for someone to love and take care of us. It's ok ladies, it is in our genetic make up. Whether we want to admit it or not, that is how it is. We attempt to change men that may not be what we want him to be upon initially meeting him. I will be the first to admit it. As soon as the panties drop to the floor, we began to explore the relationship avenue.
Confusion's Door...
Now, I see why there are so many people involved in jacked up relationships. Men and women are obvious on two totally different pages of two different books when it comes to sex, outside of committed relationships.
Women think they can handle simply being a "booty call", but the fact of the matter is WE CAN'T. WE are not men. We value ourselves too much to spend life as a "booty call". We may say, "Girl, I don't care!" or "I just want him for one thing!". It always begins that way. Then we can't explain why we are checking his messages, and firing 21 questions his way. But we don't care. Yeah right!
Men get with women and "keep it real", by telling them that they are not ready to be exclusive, but they behave in "boyfriend" ways. I actually have to commend those men who are 100% honest with women about their intentions. Women... when a man shows you who he is... BELIEVE HIM! Stop living in your dream world. There is a man out there destined to be with you... wait for him.
At the End of the Day:
Men and Women possess equally opposite opinions and ideals about relationships. We will never totally understand each other. What is most important, is that we stop leading each other on. There are millions of people infected with STD's, children who grow up with out their fathers, and marriages destroyed by sex outside of commitment. There is a bigger picture people. Let's be the source of change, and begin to respect ourselves, and each other and enjoy sex in the confines of marriage or (for those of you that just can't wait) a committed relationship.
Be Safe.
The End.
~Sexissomuchbetterwithcommitment~
I was pondering life awhile ago, and it hit me! I figured it out.
Ok... I know what you all are thinking, "Figured what out?".
How men and women view sex outside of committed relationships .
Men:
Men want It (sex) and once they get It, they don't want it anymore (the replacement journey begins).
Basically, curiosity is the best way to really know if a man is truly interested in you. Once you give up the "goodies", regardless of what he may say, your worth lessens. He may want to "hit it" occasionally, but soon you will become replaced by the next unsuspecting woman. Make him wait ladies. Embarking on a sexual relationship too soon opens the door to confusion. I will explain more later.
Women:
Women want It (sex) and once they get It, they want more (a relationship, plus more sex!).
Regardless of what we may say, once we give ourselves to a man intimately we begin to develop feelings for him (if they were not apparent prior to sleeping with him). We long for someone to love and take care of us. It's ok ladies, it is in our genetic make up. Whether we want to admit it or not, that is how it is. We attempt to change men that may not be what we want him to be upon initially meeting him. I will be the first to admit it. As soon as the panties drop to the floor, we began to explore the relationship avenue.
Confusion's Door...
Now, I see why there are so many people involved in jacked up relationships. Men and women are obvious on two totally different pages of two different books when it comes to sex, outside of committed relationships.
Women think they can handle simply being a "booty call", but the fact of the matter is WE CAN'T. WE are not men. We value ourselves too much to spend life as a "booty call". We may say, "Girl, I don't care!" or "I just want him for one thing!". It always begins that way. Then we can't explain why we are checking his messages, and firing 21 questions his way. But we don't care. Yeah right!
Men get with women and "keep it real", by telling them that they are not ready to be exclusive, but they behave in "boyfriend" ways. I actually have to commend those men who are 100% honest with women about their intentions. Women... when a man shows you who he is... BELIEVE HIM! Stop living in your dream world. There is a man out there destined to be with you... wait for him.
At the End of the Day:
Men and Women possess equally opposite opinions and ideals about relationships. We will never totally understand each other. What is most important, is that we stop leading each other on. There are millions of people infected with STD's, children who grow up with out their fathers, and marriages destroyed by sex outside of commitment. There is a bigger picture people. Let's be the source of change, and begin to respect ourselves, and each other and enjoy sex in the confines of marriage or (for those of you that just can't wait) a committed relationship.
Be Safe.
The End.
~Sexissomuchbetterwithcommitment~
posted by CRay at 6:48:00 PM
1 Comments:
you better GO GIRL! preach it because someone needs to hear it (present company included).
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